Please very fast looked in the mirror and the shadow looks personally how funny him if angry.
Walk avoided the object or the person that caused anger et cetera.
The object was excess from anger that too the illness that was not good to be maintained, because of causing thoughts always turbid.
Hatred can be not destroyed with hatred said Buddha.
Only loves that could paralyse hatred.
If your child carried out the mistake to you, you will call police so that your child is imprisoned?
If could see the other person as the feeling saw the child personally then hatred will then vanish.
The natural love was to love the child.
A child although his face pockmarked stayed pretty in the eyes of a Mother.
Jealous equally ugly him with anger.
Jealous emerged because of the ego and sticky jealous because of seeing the other person was successful whereas I was not successful.
Jealous only tortured himself, because of the person that Jealousy he cared and stayed happy, why you could not sleep and the chest was felt hot saw the other person had fun, not this an ignorance?
The love could be trained and studied although being difficult but could.
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How we could love the person who made an enemy of us, maybe this?
Appear at first glance appeared the impossible matter and only theory just imaginary.
But if the characteristics of the service have risen where the Lord changed everywhere, because he was everywhere including into self the enemy that hated us also (Tat Twam Asi) then if the awareness like this has been reached, hated and angry that too will disappear automatically was replaced with the wish to ask the Lord in order to make aware and pardon the enemy and the person who hated us.

The simple example perhaps could we took the attitude of a Mother.
You who loved his child, you who were full of hope so that his child is the good and useful person, because that was not very tired of giving advice.