Why must Paid Bangkung
Om Swastyastu, I was touchedread the reader's letter in SARAD in August 2005 concerning “ asked for help so that not paid bangkung” this Balinese, simply could be interpreted that the young man Hindu when marrying his heart sweetheart that non Hindu continued to follow the religion the beloved wife tertu him, this that was said by “ Paid Bangkung”.
Continued if being the reverse could was said by “ paid kaung ”?

Bangkung was the term for the female pig and Kaung the term for the stud pig.
Wow serious if like this, cooked humankind it was considered the pig?
Let's always had clear ideas so that far from bad prejudice about terms those were meant.
A man in the family preferably had the principle that he was the leader in his family, this ought to be invested in the heart so that since the beginning has had preparations to deal with the future.
Planting of the principle can like this fortify itself in order to be not easy bangkung won in the agenda pulled the mine in the loving process.
Except indeed the man Hindu soft like the porridge yes must always lost in pulling the mine opposed bangkung, or not embarrassed to lose opposed bangkung?

I have like this felt the principle personally, and in fact bangkung  that was approached by me did not be won, finally I then succeeded in winning the match.
For me myself, always must warn him with several signs among them.
Preferably we always remembered the ancestors that performed a service so as we were as are now the case, inget tekening kawitan – remembering the ancestors.
This capital breaking early so as to be acknowledged as Wit (capital of the foundation).
In the principle of the business, if capital has been remained definitely the profit was not easy to be gained, finally the suffering was ready to wait.

Emotions lest surpassed spiritual, because basically the love was to the emotional territory, to control this tried to train himself industriously to carry out the obligation ber Tri Sandya, to the Temple during the Tilem Full Moon or the big public holiday other, this opportunity could be also utilized for the comparative material where we will witness the other person taking the wife who came by the hand from non Hindu how come could cheerful together with his children was present at the Temple.
If about the understanding the Mighty, indeed all the religions basically headed to that one, but the standard of living in youth of periods looked for the couple, definitely was not yet thought about as far as that.
Because still the level of the puppy loves, goat excrement was felt chocolate.
Because still was covered the love ember.
However must be remembered that when we always worshipped Hyang Widi, we will be given what was needed by us and was protected what was owned by us this the holy saying available in Bhagawadgitha.
Besides paying attention to signs definitely I had the trick or steps to win in the match pulled the mine opposed bangkung, among them: After we knew close to our opponent, try to get frank that ourselves the adherent Hindu, and always honored the ancestors as well as revered the religion as well as the conduct of the implementation of the religion.
When must deliver opposite his parents, and studied their attitude whether having the green light or red that will be on?
Definitely this needed time, here needed patience for days in fact for months possibly also up until a year.
If indeed why frightened, would like that?
Moreover I until knocked-down the door could win.
Must be known by my wife the activist in the Temple although not from Hindu.
When emerging red light meaning that the side bangkung did not receive, yes what can one do than not more better pulled capital, continued the marketing in another place.
Low how come like merchandise then?

Indeed the principle of the business must be also applied, why must lose capital to pursue the certain profit did not yet be.
Yes or not?

Showed our behavior as well as possible opposite his family, in order to be created the positive assessment, if this was successful they were not shy to permit his child to be asked to the temple.
When necessary deliberate said when tomorrow was the prayer in the temple, if the bangkung want to saw was permitted, not meaning that direct request the prayer, from saw could cause the love yes or not?
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Apparently not many that could be sent by me here, my hope to the Hindu younger generations especially that was outside Bali, strengthened the determination that we could maintain the relay race ancestors this well Astungkara, Hyang Widi definitely showed the road to look for Moksartam Jagatditha.
In the west part of the world and east the person to flocked to look for Veda, why Veda must be released?
See our relatives in Central Java, East, West in fact that other has returned to the Veda teaching.
May the young be always given by the strength and the success always in peacefulness?
Om Santih, Santih, Santih.
Goes-Rhay
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